Ralph Walso Emerson |
Ralph
Waldo Emerson (1803–1882). Essays and English Traits.
Vol.
5, pp. 199-208 of The Harvard Classics
An etiquette book
and a good tailor do not always produce a gentleman - neither does
the Social Register include only gentlemen. Emerson by quaint stories
tells how fashion and manners combine to make that rare product - a
gentleman.
(Emerson's first
marriage, Sept. 30, 1829.)
Essays
XII.
Manners
1844
How near to good is
what is fair!
Which we no sooner
see,
But with the lines and
outward air
Our senses taken be.
———
Again
yourselves compose,
And now put
all the aptness on
Of Figure,
that Proportion
Or Color
can disclose;
That if
those silent arts were lost,
Design and
Picture, they might boast
From you a
newer ground,
Instructed
by the heightening sense
Of dignity
and reverence
In their
true motions found.
—BEN
JONSON.
HALF the world, it is
said, knows not how the other half live. Our Exploring Expedition saw
the Feejee islanders getting their dinner off human bones; and they
are said to eat their own wives and children. The husbandry of the
modern inhabitants of Gournou (west of old Thebes) is philosophical
to a fault. To set up their housekeeping, nothing is requisite but
two or three earthen pots, a stone to grind meal, and a mat which is
the bed. The house, namely, a tomb, is ready without rent or taxes.
No rain can pass through the roof, and there is no door, for there is
no want of one, as there is nothing to lose. If the house do not
please them, they walk out and enter another, as there are several
hundreds at their command. “It is somewhat singular,” adds
Belzoni, to whom we owe this account, “to talk of happiness among
people who live in sepulchres, among the corpses and rags of an
ancient nation which they know nothing of.” In the deserts of
Borgoo, the rock-Tibboos still dwell in caves, like cliff-swallows,
and the language of these negroes is compared by their neighbors to
the shrieking of bats, and to the whistling of birds. Again, the
Bornoos have no proper names; individuals are called after their
height, thickness, or other accidental quality, and have nicknames
merely. But the salt, the dates, the ivory, and the gold, for which
these horrible regions are visited, find their way into countries,
where the purchaser and consumer can hardly be ranked in one race
with these cannibals and man-stealers; countries where man serves
himself with metals, wood, stone, glass, gum, cotton, silk, and wool;
honors himself with architecture; writes laws, and contrives to
execute his will through the hands of many nations; and, especially,
establishes a select society, running through all the countries of
intelligent men, a self-constituted aristocracy, or fraternity of the
best, which, without written law or exact usage of any kind,
perpetuates itself, colonizes every new-planted island, and adopts
and makes its own whatever personal beauty or extraordinary native
endowment anywhere appears.